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  I remember sitting on my father’s lap as a boy. He would hold my arms, spread his legs and I’d drop through the gap, almost hitting the floor before he pulled me back up, and I would laugh, eager for more. I remember walking beside him, trying to keep up with his long stride. We would play catch together in the backyard. I felt the hard smack of the ball when he hurled it into my hands. I remember spilling a glass of milk at the dinner table. I was about five or six. My father threatened to beat me with his shoe. I can still see the glass slipping from my grasp, the milk gushing out in slow motion as my father’s face blossomed with fury.

  I inherited his temper. When I was nine years old, my childhood friend Tom and his parents were late picking me up for a Chicago Cubs game. I thought we’d miss the first inning. I stomped my feet and kicked the breakfast nook table.

  “Where are they?” I snapped.

  “You’re acting just like your father,” my mother scolded.

  Her words stopped me cold. I sat down and took deep breaths, letting each one out slowly, until I calmed down. I would not be my father.

  Flo had been divorced for five years when we met in 2002. She had read a story of mine in the Star about a puppy I had rescued from a dog fight in Kabul that year. In an email she praised me for saving the dog. She also said she liked a photo of me that accompanied the story and suggested we get together. Intrigued by how direct she was, and flattered, I agreed.

  We met at Kaldis, a coffee shop in Kansas City’s Country Club Plaza, on a Saturday in mid-March. Flo wore a snug white blouse and blue jeans, and I liked how her clothes hugged her body and the way her blond hair fell down her back. We soon realized we had several things in common. Flo was a social worker in a high school in Shawnee, Kansas, a suburb of Kansas City. I told her about my work with the homeless in San Francisco. She had lived in Columbia, Missouri. I had too when I was traipsing across the country in my twenties. We were both vegetarians. At the time, I still lived on Summit Street. Flo owned a two-story home in Overland Park, Kansas, where she lived with her two teenage sons, Barry and Danny, and Molly. Barry was about to graduate from high school.

  Flo and I spent two hours together in the Plaza. I asked her out for dinner a few days later. We dated for more than a year before I moved in. Few things in Flo’s house belonged to me. If I put something away where it hadn’t been before she would call me on it. Not because it didn’t make sense but because I was breaking an established order. Molly treated me like the younger sibling she never had, a cross between friendship and total disregard. Barry and Danny were deep into their teenage worlds and had little use for me.

  Although Flo and I referred to her house as “our house,” I wasn’t fooling myself. The house remained very much hers. In stressful moments she talked as if she still lived alone. She complained, “My grass needs to be cut,” or “My bedroom is a mess,” or “My kitchen is too small.” At these times, I was reminded about who the house belonged to, and I felt like a tenant who was sleeping with the landlady. I lived inside Flo’s house but outside it too, an observer one step removed from the activity around me. Our life together took on the feel of another reporting assignment that would end.

  Weekdays Flo and I would wake up about six and get ready for work. Molly would catch a bus to school about seven-thirty. At night Flo would cook dinner. Afterward she would go over Molly’s homework and then we would read or watch television together. In no time at all, it seemed, it was time for bed.

  On weekends I still got up early. I made coffee and waited for her to come downstairs. Then we’d eat breakfast, clean the house, and take Molly to a movie. Before I knew it, we were having dinner and then kissing good night, long kisses that sometimes put the night on hold before it raced ahead again toward dawn. Hours later I rose to the surface from a deep sleep, awaking to another day in Flo’s house.

  Shortly after I moved in, we discussed buying a house that would be truly “ours,” but neither of us had the money and we didn’t want to go into debt. After some consideration, we arrived at an alternative plan. We decided to replace the tiled floors in the kitchen, living room, and front hall of Flo’s house with hardwood. Altering the interior, we thought, would make the house as much mine as hers.

  The morning I’d found the kitten, the house was in upheaval. Carpenters had been in the previous day and had begun work on the floors. Piles of shorn tile took up corners. Living room rugs had been heaped on top of chairs. End tables appeared to have been tossed into any out-of-the-way place.

  “Look what they’ve done to my house,” Flo said, greeting me at the door.

  Kitten in tow, I had parked on the street outside Flo’s house. She kept her car in the garage. She got home from work before I did and felt that entitled her to the space. I didn’t argue; it made sense, I supposed. What I did know was that I left my car on the street. It meant that I locked the doors every night. It meant that my car was exposed. It meant that I hoped some kid didn’t vandalize it. Sometimes such little patterns of our life together combusted and I wanted to explode and leave Flo. Instead, I’d walk around the block and recall when we’d gotten together at Kaldis Coffee. Her blond hair, the sparkle in her eyes. The way she said good-bye with a cock of her head and a coquettish twist of her hips. Remembering these moments, I felt the rush of warm feelings I’d had when we first met. I was sure I’d miss Flo, even those moments when she upset me, because those moments were part of her companionship, part of what filled me and made me feel not alone.

  Resolving to control my temper but still feeling annoyed, I’d return to the house and say nothing. My father would have stormed back inside and let rip a hurricane of fury. I instead engaged in silence, retreating to the study and turning on the computer to cut myself off from Flo, from Molly, from everyone, allowing the flame of my anger to smolder and sputter out.

  “You okay?,” Flo asked.

  “I’m fine,” I told her.

  I carried the kitten inside, and Molly met me at the door and lifted it from my arms.

  “Can I keep her in my room?” she asked Flo.

  “I don’t see why not.”

  “Wait,” I said. “We don’t even know if it’s litter-trained. We’ll put it in our bathroom tonight and see how it does.”

  “We’ll put it in the bathroom now and if it’s okay in a couple of hours, I don’t see why she can’t have it in her room,” Flo answered.

  She looked at me with a what-do-you-want-me-to-do expression. I gave her my don’t-give-your-daughter-everything-she-wants look.

  What? Flo said with her eyes. What are you saying?

  “Nothing,” I said. “Nothing.”

  “This is a big step,” Flo said when I decided to move in with her.

  “Are you sure?”

  “Of course.”

  Until then we’d had a routine: I’d spend several nights a week with her and then return to my apartment. Sofa, chair, futon bed, television, bare walls. I met friends after work at bars, or, I drove home and watched TV. A day or two later I’d stay with Flo again. Something was missing. I felt alive only when I traveled abroad as a reporter, invigorated by the impermanence and uncertainties of the journey. I had nothing to look forward to in Kansas City until I met Flo. I thought moving in with her would be the start of our lives together. I thought I’d feel settled. I thought I’d be content.

  “Of course,” I said again. “I have to do something.”

  “We have to,” she corrected.

  That night I thought of my parents. My father was thirty-two and my mother twenty-nine when they married, old by the standards of their World War II generation. They had to do something. I don’t think, however, that they were desperate.

  A black-and-white photo of my parents shows them sitting in a restaurant at a table filled with other people. Baskets of flowers hang above their heads. My mother wears a light-colored dress, my father a suit and tie. They’re smiling at each other. Their eyes dance with mischief. I imagine them reaching beneath t
he table toward each other in this room crowded with other couples oblivious of their desire.

  I understood just how much my parents loved each other not long ago when my mother tripped while walking into the kitchen from the living room and fell against a wall. She slid to the floor bleeding from her forehead.

  My father helped her back up and then grabbed her coat. He insisted on taking her to the emergency room no matter her objections. I was home visiting. I drove and he directed me although I knew the way. I kept quiet and let him take charge in the only way he could, since his failing eyesight prevented him from driving.

  Seated on a gurney waiting to be examined, my mother muttered about how she hated hospitals. My father, she said, was making a fuss over nothing. He laughed. He patted her knee and she reached over and covered his hand with hers. She didn’t stop complaining until the doctors released her. My father kept smiling and laughing and holding her hand. Her fingers entwined with his and he put his other hand over hers and they looked at each other as if I weren’t there.

  I blushed. I could not recall ever having seen them kiss, let alone hold hands.

  When I moved in with Flo, I stored my sofa, chair, and futon in her basement and covered them with a plastic sheet. A room upstairs had been cleared for me to use as a study. I had suggested putting my futon there to use it as a couch, but Flo said it didn’t go with the pink carpet. The study was just inside the front door and was the first room a visitor would see on entering the house. She wanted me to get new furniture. I bought two wicker chairs with red cushions. She liked the chairs at first, but when I brought them home she thought they were uncomfortable, and she hated the southwestern pattern on the cushions.

  “You didn’t want the futon and now you don’t like the chairs,” I said.

  We ignored each other the rest of the day. The following afternoon I dropped by her work and brought her roses. She cried. We had lunch and stitched our life back together.

  We called the kitten Zoey. Molly decided on the name. When she went to bed, Molly took it into her room. Flo and I would stay up and watch television. Then Flo went to bed. If I wasn’t tired, I’d go into the kitchen and pour a glass of red wine. Then I’d open a can of cat food and wait. In seconds, Zoey ran downstairs. I took satisfaction in watching her eat. When she finished, I walked into the living room and considered the disaster the carpenters had made.

  Moving through the clutter, I began to organize things. I pushed the sofa against the wall and placed the end tables on either side of it. I laid the rugs over the exposed subfloor and plugged in a lamp and set up some chairs. It didn’t look much better, but now it was my mess.

  Then I carried Zoey downstairs to the basement and sat on my futon. The plastic sheet crinkled under me. It had the same smell as a new car.

  My father used to tell me stories about his first job as a salesman with a Baltimore canning company before he went to work for his father. He’d drive to Omaha, Denver, Santa Fe. Rolling past farm fields and silent houses. No radio. Cocooned in his car, floating in the silence of early morning. He enjoyed talking about it and drifted off for seconds with his eyes closed before he turned to me, opened his eyes, and waited for the present to reassert itself.

  I continued feeding Zoey at night, and she stopped sleeping with Molly. Now she follows me around until I’m ready for bed. Although she wants to sleep with me, her loud purr keeps Flo awake. I lock Zoey out of the room but some nights she scratches at the door, waking us both.

  “We need to put Zoey in the basement at night,” Flo told me one night before dinner.

  We faced each other in the kitchen. I poured two glasses of wine.

  “If you ignore her, she’ll stop,” I said.

  “I can’t keep taking sleeping pills every night.”

  “She won’t understand what you’re doing if you lock her in the basement.”

  “Listen to you. She’s a cat.”

  “Well, it’s your house, isn’t it? Do what you want.”

  “I don’t even know what you mean by that.”

  I stepped back into a corner, gripping my wineglass. I stared at the floor and fought back my temper. Flo crossed her arms and looked away. I waited, feeling we were at a defining moment in our relationship, that when we spoke again we would either cobble together an acceptable agreement or we would not, and that would be it. Or the start of being it.

  Flo turned away from me and began emptying the dishwasher. A dessert plate slipped from her hand. I watched it fall, watched it shatter near my feet.

  “I’m sorry,” Flo said, her voice breaking.

  I nudged pieces of glass with my shoe. I now felt calm, almost serene. The noise of the broken plate had dispersed my anger into the silence that followed. I felt a calm so total I didn’t need to say one word. I just stood there and reset, holding my wineglass and listening to Flo cry.

  The two young men installing the floor, Craig and Dennis, looked about the same age I was when I worked on a construction crew one summer during college in Cedar Rapids. We were building a hotel. The morning they started work I helped them unload boxes of nails and glue from their truck. They appeared uncomfortable with my assistance but not quite sure what to do about it. I told them stories about my summer in Cedar Rapids: the incompetence of the supervisor, the sweltering heat, the twelve-to-fifteen-hour days. That day I kept pace with Craig and Dennis until we finished working. I invited them into the kitchen and made coffee and offered them doughnuts. I told more stories. They stopped calling me Mr. Garcia. They said if I wanted to, I could work with them the next day.

  When I look back on that college summer, I remember a wheelbarrow filled with cement and the weight of its wooden handles in my hands as I lift it, and I feel the muscles in my arms tense when I push forward, and just when it seems the wheelbarrow will not budge it begins to roll, carried by the weight of the cement, and I shove it up a wobbly board, nothing below me but a trench of gravel and mud, and onto the second floor of the hotel and tip it, dumping the cement into a trough, and then let go of the handles and the wheelbarrow stands for seconds and then falls sideways and I rest my hands on my hips and catch my breath free of its weight, sweating, my arms inflated from the strain, and I look out at Cedar Rapids and the flat roofs and the splashes of green between houses and the long roads like tentacles that ensnare neighborhoods as well as lead out of them, and I see my father on one of those roads and think that if my pounding heart does not slow down I will walk on air, by God, walk on air right over everything and follow him out of town.

  One morning Craig told me we had a problem. He had removed the toilet to lay the floor in the second-floor bathroom and found that the mount for the toilet had rotted.

  “You need a plumber to take care of this,” he said.

  “I need my bathroom,” Flo said.

  “I don’t do plumbing.”

  “But …” I began.

  “Dude,” Craig said. “I don’t do this kind of work.”

  He walked downstairs. Shadows dappled his body and it appeared for an instant that he was descending into water. He stopped at a plate of doughnuts and popped the last one in his mouth. The camaraderie was over. He didn’t care about my summer in Cedar Rapids. I had worked beside him and Dennis, and they were the ones getting paid. He was probably laughing at me.

  “Where’re you going?” I said.

  “Truck.”

  He opened the door and Zoey darted outside.

  “Oh, Christ,” I said.

  Zoey dashed across the yard to some trees and I ran after her. She took off again, bounding farther away. I kept running. Flo shouted after me. I ran faster and faster, disconnected from a lonely desire to hold her one last time, until I heard nothing but my feet cutting through the damp grass, and I passed trees and more trees and continued running toward what I didn’t know, the sound of my father calling me back yet urging me on.

  A Simple Explanation

  (2005–2008)

  I was aslee
p the night Chris died. The year was 2005. According to news reports, Chris had just returned home from college a week before Christmas and was driving at night with his sister. They had been very close. She was the first person other than his parents he wanted to see. It was also reported that he enjoyed driving fast and was a NASCAR fan. The accident happened around midnight, a block from his house in Overland Park, Kansas, not far from where I lived on 115th Terrace. I thought his death tragic but didn’t think much more about it until the following year, when my brother Butch died just as unexpectedly.

  What I had heard about Chris reminded me of Butch. Like Chris, Butch enjoyed driving fast. As a teenager he’d fancied himself a race car driver. His obsession followed an earlier infatuation with scuba diving. In high school he bought a mask and flippers and a deep-sea watch and subscribed to diving magazines. Yet he never took lessons, although our parents offered to pay for them.

  When I was eleven and Butch was eighteen, our family vacationed in Bermuda. We stayed at a hotel that offered scuba lessons. I asked Butch to sign up with me. We would learn in a pool and then later in the afternoon dive in the ocean. He sat on the edge of his bed and stared at the floor, cornered by my excitement and the opportunity. His face paled.

  “I’m not feeling good, Moose,” he said.

  I took the lessons alone. My mother wanted Butch to see the hotel doctor, but my father insisted he was fine.

  “He’s afraid,” my father concluded, disgusted. “Not sick.”

  My mother did not respond. She knew better. My father was not someone who accepted inhibition, especially not from his eldest son and namesake, Charles Jr. As a consequence, my mother held herself accountable for whatever fears prevented Butch from pursuing his interests. When he started school, he had trouble reading and repeated first grade. My mother believed his self-confidence was damaged from that moment on. My father dismissed the idea with an impatient mutter of “Nonsense.” Still, she persisted in her belief that she was responsible for my brother’s lack of confidence. She was convinced that if she had only insisted that he go on to the second grade with the rest of his class his life might have been different.